Everett Bailey

Dr. Everett Bailey

Individual and Couples Therapist

Dr. Everett Bailey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Mesa, Arizona and has almost 30 years of experience in doing therapy with couples and individuals. He has a PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy from Purdue University. He has also been trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) and in Gottman Couples Therapy. In addition to his professional training he also draws on his experience from being married for 35 years.

Couples Therapy

All couples have conflicts. The difference between happy and unhappy couples is whether they have a healthy process of repair. Dr. Bailey specializes in helping couples develop that repair process. The way many couples argue leaves them feeling frustrated, distant, and unfulfilled instead of feeling resolved and reconnected. Eventually they stop talking because it just turns into a fight. Without a healthy repair process they often grow apart and become more like roommates. Approaching couples from an attachment perspective, he helps couples develop the closeness and connection they desire. The process entails identifying negative patterns, stop blaming each other and learning how to find more effective ways to respond to each other.

Sexual Relationship and Problematic Sexual Behaviors

Dr. Bailey has worked a lot with couples struggling with their sexual relationship. He has extensive experience in treating problematic sexual behaviors including pornography, affairs, and online sexual behaviors. These behaviors create a lot of hurt and mistrust in a relationship. Dr. Bailey helps individuals address the underlying issues related to these behaviors and helps couples heal from the damage, and rebuild trust. In addition, he specializes in helping couples deal with intimacy problems in their marriage, both physical and emotional, which often creates a lot of frustration and distance.

Men in Therapy

Dr. Bailey has a unique focus in working with men who are often skeptical about therapy. Often men will use work, alcohol, sex, pornography, money, gambling, or other behaviors to deal with feelings or stress. These numbing out behaviors often lead men to be emotionally detach from their partners which leads to more serious problems in their relationships. However through therapy, Dr. Bailey helps couples learn how to work through issues and connect to each other instead of escaping to unhealthy behaviors that drive them further apart.

Trauma and Mindfulness

Dr. Bailey also works with individuals dealing with trauma issues or struggling with depression and anxiety.  He uses a variety of techniques including mindfulness, CBT and EMDR. He has completed several trainings in treating trauma and is a Certified EMDR Therapist.

Additional Areas of Specialty:

  • Couples therapy
  • Infidelity
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Relationship issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • EMDR
  • Pornography
  • Depression
  • Anger management
  • Problematic Sexual Behaviors
  • Anxiety
  • Adolescents
  • Sex addiction
  • Trauma/PTSD
  • Parenting

Insurance and Scheduling

Dr. Bailey does not accept insurance. His rates are $200 per session which is 50 minutes.
To set up an appointment email Dr. Bailey at dreverettbailey@gmail.com.


3048 E. Baseline Rd, Suite 117,
Mesa, AZ 85204

Our Mission

Our mission is to provide counseling, education, and support to individuals, couples and families. To offer a safe environment for them to heal from hurt and overcome challenges in order to lead healthier, happier lives. In addition, to help clients develop the skills necessary to foster and build strong secure connections in their daily lives.

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